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I gave my word. Now I want to end it.

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/30/2018 - 09:50

I engaged my daughter to my husband’s sister’s son his age is 26 and my daughter’s age is 18 but due to some reasons which are he is jobless he cant drive and he stays at home mostly and have some habits my daughter dont like and she wants to end it she is not happy about this relation she is annoyed by his family and the boy’s sister in law is not happy about this relation and she pass very negative comments about us and my daughter says that its a forced relation she is not interested in anyone she says you can marry with me anyone but not with him

Counsel: Anger

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 04/25/2018 - 07:16

Assalaamu alikum … I want to say that once i was one of the softest person in my whole family.. even people used to pray for their son to give them a soft heart like me.. but as time passed on , i began to loose my patience.. i am now an impatient boy.. gets angry even after every hour.. even when i talk simply, peole say that i am shouting.. that what its impact has changed me… i too want to solve and get rid of this problem of impatience and frequent anger.. even i try my best to resist.. but sometimes i fail to resist,,. and get angry again… please give suggestions…

Counsel: Humble

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 04/18/2018 - 09:13

how can i be humble. i don't know why i get irritated easily. whether it's my short temper or my anxiety but now a days i am being very rude to all even with my family as well. more rude than ever and I feel guilty after being rude to people and want to apologise as well but I don't do except to my mother. doesn't Allah loves me because I have heard Allah give this gift of humility to those he loves. why can't i say sorry to people despite i want to ? despite of feeling guilty to cry? i try to offer all 5 time salah sometimes I miss but still I try.

Sile Rahem

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/15/2018 - 14:16

My nephew stole money from my son. The way we found out is my husband took out the cctv footage and call records of everyone we were suspicious of. Because of this my sister is angry with me and will not speak with me. In the past we had very good relations. I am not certain what to do because my husband doesnt want me to talk to my sister anymore. Please guide me.

Marriage (Advice)

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 04/10/2018 - 19:56

Aslaam Alaikum I have received wedding proposal. We have now found that the guy has a child which was without being married. The guy has said now he has changed and was misled by friends. He says that he has now changed completely and has become religious and amended his ways. Please advise if this person should be given a chance knowing that he says he has now changed and ammended his ways. Please advise futher advice from religious scholars of what should be done. Jazakallah khair

Counsel: Talk to parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/09/2018 - 22:33

A.o.a i want to ask that i try to calm myself infront of my parents but most of the time when talking to them i starts to scream at them like if they have bring me any juice without straw i would start screaming on them or if they have put my books and forgotten where they have put them i would start screaming at them i cant control my self at that time i know that its a big sin to scream on our parents but i cant control myself when i am angry please tell me how can i control myself when talking to my parents.


Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 04/06/2018 - 12:52

I am a married man with children, I have committed Zina. Now I am completely ashamed and frustrated what to do, I am very much ashamed want to end my life. What should I do


Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 03/07/2018 - 10:41

In a dispute between mother and wife, if its clear that mother is not willing to see his son and daughter in law happy. And is involved in conspiracies to make apart both husband and wife, what should a son do? Islam clearly describes the respect and honour of a mother to his son and Islam also says that in two women his mother and wife son should follow his mother in any case. But if it all happens due to the mother, and mother tries to create disputes between husband and wife, what should be the reaction of a son should be to his mother?


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