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Counsel - Parents/Sile Rehm

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/29/2018 - 14:29

Salaamalaikum. I have parents who have had long standing issues with my brothers wife. There had been some past problems that have to this day gone unresolved. It is now my nephews wedding, and my parents do not want to attend as a result of their problems with his mother. They also do not want me or my wife to attend my nephews wedding in fear of people telling us bad things that will drive me away from my parents.

1. What does islam say on their rights on this matter. In light of no valid reason to not go, should I disobey and go to the wedding?

Homosexual

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 06/13/2018 - 09:05

So my elder brother has been giving us problems since he was in the 6th grade. He suffers from depression and social-anxiety along with a very low self-esteem. He randomly has mood swings and has so much jealousy/envy and hate in him, he hates seeing any man that he feels is better looking than him so he’ll only hang around losers who he believes are below him. He has a terrible relationship with my other brother who he feels threatened by even his presence. And doesn’t have such a great relationship with my dad either, but will still tolerate him over my other brother any day.

Obeying Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 05/22/2018 - 15:31

Hi Sheikh, originally i am from pakistan I went to Australia for study. I studied and worked there very hard for 8 years. i was very succesfull. i always tried to keep my parents happy, although we had occasional arguments but my intention was always to keep them happy. while i was on holiday in pakistan another pakistani guy living in australia commited murder and used my mobile without my permission to instigate it.

Exam - Stress

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/09/2018 - 11:32

Salam. I am in high school and my exams are due in two weeks. I am going through depression and tension because I can't complete all my work. I want to kill myself because I can't handle the pressure but then I think it is haraam. But still what should I do? Please sir help me out in this problem. Any dua or anything which could help me out from this stress!

Abusive Father

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/08/2018 - 16:16

My parents have been married for 28 years.my father always abuse my mother physically mentally verbally and emotionally. My mother had tried everything to change his behaviour but still he didn't change. Along with my mother he also abuse me n my brother..He insults us , put us down, beat us too...Me n my mother we both are financially independent..My mother wants a khula..so my question is: is it right for me to leave my abusive father and live somewhere else with my mother?

Mother

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 04/05/2018 - 14:12

Salam I have a question about my mother who in general is a very sweet lady with a generous heart but shes the exact opposite with me. my mothers sister and her daughters are extremely jealous of me and they misguid my mother when ever they have a chance to do and now my mother being decieved by them is fighting with me all the time she ignores me and now even blackmails me . At first i wud tolerate all this but now my patience is broken and i am frustrated and when she fights with me now i fight back ad i curse her that the way shes doing may Allah do the same with her ...

Marriage Proposal

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 03/24/2018 - 18:52

If a girl refuses to get married to a person whom her parents want her to get married just because he is from the same family. . She refuses n tell her parents repeatedly but they instead of doing anything positive, start hiding every single proposal n reject them without even letting her know what should the girl do according to Quran n sunnah? She is a 30 years girl n it is almost impossible to convince her parents. .

Gender of the Foetus

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 02/19/2018 - 09:16

Dear Sir Salam alikum

In islam it is allowed for wife to tell husband what gender she carrying during pregnancy becoz she told me its details one week before pls advise jazakllah kair

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