Islam teaches us to respect the parents, young or old, and this is an important duty charged by Allah.
This can be challenging and difficult at times, as you have highlighted.
In the end, you are only responsible and accountable to God for your own behaviour and attitude
It appears that there is a breakdown in communication between all of you and issues are only brought up when there is disagreement. At that time anger clouds everyone's judgement.
I would suggest that you make a list of the things that you feel are unfair on you and when an opportunity presents itself (when you are not arguing on a matter), sit down and discuss together the way forward.
There may be a few things that cannot be resolved until you are older and more ndependent, so be patient.