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I am fed up of repeating myself my wife just never wants to clean up the mess

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 07/23/2019 - 19:48

I have been married now for 5+ years and we’ve been living in our own place , I help my wife as much I can around the house and working full time , for the past 3 years our kitchen and the rest of the house is always a mess and I am fed up of repeating myself my wife just never wants to clean up , yes at times she’ll clean up etc etc but our kitchen is a complete junk , everything else she cooks etc etc , the bedroom has a pile of clothes that have been there for years and kitchen is just a state and sometimes when I come back from work the living room including table is a state My question

My father is a very nice person but is often rude to others and talks about others very negatively.

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 07/21/2019 - 11:21

My father is a very nice person. He takes care of others, provides for them but is often rude to others and talks about others very negatively. Even in politics is very rigid and will go to lengths to ridicule the opposite party and protect his own. I always want to advise him to be calmer and have a more open and receptive mind but we always end up arguing and he thinks I’m condescending. I cannot bear with it so I just agree with him or ignore it when he’s being rude to anyone or talking bad about someone. Basically if he doesn’t like someone, he will hate them.

my Marriage is breaking appart

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 05/14/2019 - 11:27

Assalamu alaykum sheikh, I really don't know what to do? I am having some jealousy & hatred towards my wife brother in law because once she praised him for how he looks after her sister & also once my wife was pregnant and her brother in law organised baby shower for her and invited us to attend but I refused due to work etc but he still insisted to take my wife alone in his car even if I'm not coming. I don’t know if my this kind of jealously is just, or am I being too possessive with my wife.

Marriage promise

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/14/2019 - 21:53

I am a 21 year old university (Level 200) student. I made a promise to a sister that am going to marry her when am done with my studies. She is also as young as i am in a different college. We sometimes communicate through the phone. I want to change my decision but i am afraid i will be breaking a promise i made. Well, i am reviewing the decision to have some space and time (I have too much financial disturbances from her). I just want to be move away by making my decision clear but am afraid of leaving my promise hanging. Need some advice please.


Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 03/22/2019 - 05:44

Assalam o alikum mjhse aik galati hogai h mene na smjhi me a k apni nand p aik jhoot bandh dia h jb k unhone aesa kia nh tha ab dar lagrha h k mere shohar se agr me iski mafi ki bag karungi to wo bht zyada gussa hojaenge jb k wo gusse k bht tez h or wo us wqt hmare sath maujood b nh thi ab mjhe kia karna chaiye h me bht sharmindah hun


Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 03/16/2019 - 22:01

What happens when you swear on the name of a particular person in anger and later on you want to take it it possible?


Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 03/06/2019 - 14:03

i m a soft heart person, offer 5 time prayer with jamaut, also offer roza, talawat,tasbhi, giving sadqa,zakaat,and khairat at regularly. Have a good decent job, Parents, siblings, relatives, friend and subordinates, colleagues, boss happy, i never harsh to any time to anyone. they all are admire me and my personalty. very good living stander,qualified educated handsome built. 3 daughters 1 son and wife. children at university level all are A plus division holder. BUT.....


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