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What can I do to make deceased happy with me again

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 11/30/2019 - 22:36

Asalamu alaikum, I have a loved one who passed away a year ago, they had never come in my dreams throughout this year but last night unexpectedly they came in my dreams for the first time and they seemed very unhappy with me, the reason they gave for being unhappy with me was true, what can I do to change this and make them happy with me, Obviously I cannot change the past and I have to accept and repent for the sin that I committed, but what can I do to make that person happy with me again. Would mean alot if you could help me. Jazak'Allah khair.

If a person truly repents, can he marry a chaste woman without disclosing his previous mistakes?

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 11/29/2019 - 12:49

Dear Sir, Assalamoalaikum. Please help us with true knowledge. I want to share a story about one of my cousins (brother) followed by some quresies for true guidance. My cousin is very pious and a good human being from his childhood. He lost his father when he was only 6. His family has good reputation in their society. 2 years ago my cousin felt in love with a girl. He loved her so much that he didn't want to loose her. As he always try to follow islam, therefore, was afraid of engaging in wrong activities (like zina), which is very common in modern world.

Masarif in the way of Allah

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 11/03/2019 - 09:36

On purchase of some asset, if it is decided that on selling this much percentage of profit will be distributed in the way of Allah, then who all are masarif? I mean who can be given this share? Like can it be given for construction of masjid, needy real brothers and sisters, orphanage, madaris etc

Hurting Small Kittens

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 10/10/2019 - 09:22

Dear Sir, Salaam Walekum, I have got 4 kittens in my office with a mother cat. I play with the kittens and when they start scratching me I misbehave with them, I beat them and mistreat them. They have started hating me now. I can't control my anger around them. I realize this many a times but I still end up doing the same acts. I think I am loosing my mind because of anger issues. I know beating animals is not allowed in Islam, but I am still doing it. Everytime I think that I won't do it again, I end up doing the same thing.I think it's like I like hurting and torturing them.

I am fed up of repeating myself my wife just never wants to clean up the mess

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 07/23/2019 - 19:48

I have been married now for 5+ years and we’ve been living in our own place , I help my wife as much I can around the house and working full time , for the past 3 years our kitchen and the rest of the house is always a mess and I am fed up of repeating myself my wife just never wants to clean up , yes at times she’ll clean up etc etc but our kitchen is a complete junk , everything else she cooks etc etc , the bedroom has a pile of clothes that have been there for years and kitchen is just a state and sometimes when I come back from work the living room including table is a state My question

My father is a very nice person but is often rude to others and talks about others very negatively.

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 07/21/2019 - 11:21

My father is a very nice person. He takes care of others, provides for them but is often rude to others and talks about others very negatively. Even in politics is very rigid and will go to lengths to ridicule the opposite party and protect his own. I always want to advise him to be calmer and have a more open and receptive mind but we always end up arguing and he thinks I’m condescending. I cannot bear with it so I just agree with him or ignore it when he’s being rude to anyone or talking bad about someone. Basically if he doesn’t like someone, he will hate them.

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