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Counsel - Husband Inviting Towards Evil

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 09/24/2018 - 19:19

I got married in 2014, from then itself I started experiencing problems with my husband.. he always forces me to have drinks and join him to pub.. I follow Islamic rules strictly.. my family also.. but I noticed that my husband is not perform salah from the first day itself.. all these drained me but I was in a bad sittuation where I couldn't share anything to my parents or anyone else.. since if my parents knows all these, they are going to be hurt severely.. I thought it's better to sacrifice than to hurt my parents... Now a days I feel really bad..

Proud or Confident

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 09/24/2018 - 11:42

Respected brother! Allah Almighty has blessed me and I have become a doctor. I am so happy and I have worked so hard for it and Allah has blessed me, so I like to tell it to everyone and be proud about it and receive congratulations. Should I be humble and not tell anyone or there is no wrong in doing what I am doing? I dont want my Allah to be sad with me

Counsel - Depression

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 09/21/2018 - 23:32

AOA I’m an a level student and I suffer from depression. I still haven’t decided my career. All my friends got As and A*s in their olevels and I got Bs. No matter how hard I try I can’t achieve my goals. I can’t get into any good university in Pakistan or abroad as I have a very poor result. All my friends are very intelligent and will become very successful in future. I’m a looser and I don’t want to live anymore. I will not commit sucide as it is haram and I don’t do drugs or drink. I pray 5 times a day. I’m in pain and at every point in my life I’ve suffered.

Counsel - Divorce

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 09/04/2018 - 15:15

I have 4 years of marriage and a little 3 years old boy. I discovered my husband cheats me and now he wants to divorce. Ieven talked with that woman he cheated me with and she said is haram what i do and that i should let them be happy.If defending and fighting for my marriage is haram, what she does how can be named?I need an advice of what can i do to bring my husband back to me and his son that is missing him so much?thank you!

Counsel - I Keep Committing the Same Sin

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 09/01/2018 - 22:56

Asalamualaikum, Firstly, I would like to thank you for taking the time to read my message. I'm currently 16 and am in high school and Allah the Almighty has gifted me with many things in this life. He has granted me with somethings which I cannot even describe in words. Despite all that he has gifted me with, I keep making the same mistake over and over again. Over a year ago, Allah has saved me from pornography addiction, and I haven't watched porn again. Along with porn, I would also masturbate.

Counsel - Disobedient Wife (Marriage)

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 08/04/2018 - 16:09

My wife usually fights and disrespects me over frivolous matters and deprives me of my sexual rights. This happens every now and then. I try my best to pray five times a day and keep away from haram deeds. I am an active man and her attitude frustrates me a lot. I can afford a second wife, but I know she will take away our two kids that I love lot. She knows that my kids are my weakness and exploits it. I am very upset. Please help.

Counsel - Zina - Repentance

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 07/20/2018 - 16:21

Assamlu Alikum, Somebody has told me asked me a question but I didn't know how to answer it I need to help this brother. The brother said that he committed zina with his cousin when they were very young. He wasn't praying regularly and committed other major sins like backbiting, etc. He repented for all of these but then committed zina again with another person whom he was meant to get married to. The marriage never went ahead due to financial issues and he felt overwhelmed and left her.


Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 07/18/2018 - 16:17

Assalamu Alaikum, Sabar has much importance in Islam. I want to ask that if a woman is ugly and she is criticised by the people around her and compared by her sisters who are beautiful. Even there is no marriage proposal for her.  But she always shows patience. Is it a type of Sabar and will she rewarded in akhirah for her Sabar. Jazakallah.

Repentance for Sexual Sin

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 07/03/2018 - 10:55

I am a Muslim, but I recently engaged in sexual activities than I deeply regret. I went as far as to giving oral and dry humping but stopped before having intercourse. I was also naked from the top up. I am so ashamed of my actions and I do not know what to do. How can I make up for this grave sin? Can I still claim that I am a virgin? Please help me, I can't stop thinking about what I have done. I don't even know how to move on from here, guilt is everything I feel and think about all the time. Thank you.

How to ask for forgiveness in this action?

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/29/2018 - 05:02

A decade ago right before I hit puberty I went to India, over there I was with a cousin of mine. She is around my age. One night I dont know why I decided to put my handunderneath her clothing and touch her breast. This was after she fell asleep. We sleep in the same room. Right after i committed the action i felt so much guilt come over me i went and tried to burn my hand but I couldn't do it. I repented and I don't know what I should do in order to repent correctly. 


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