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Sabr/Patience

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 07/18/2018 - 16:17

Assalamu Alaikum, Sabar has much importance in Islam. I want to ask that if a woman is ugly and she is criticised by the people around her and compared by her sisters who are beautiful. Even there is no marriage proposal for her.  But she always shows patience. Is it a type of Sabar and will she rewarded in akhirah for her Sabar. Jazakallah.

Repentance for Sexual Sin

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 07/03/2018 - 10:55

I am a Muslim, but I recently engaged in sexual activities than I deeply regret. I went as far as to giving oral and dry humping but stopped before having intercourse. I was also naked from the top up. I am so ashamed of my actions and I do not know what to do. How can I make up for this grave sin? Can I still claim that I am a virgin? Please help me, I can't stop thinking about what I have done. I don't even know how to move on from here, guilt is everything I feel and think about all the time. Thank you.

How to ask for forgiveness in this action?

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/29/2018 - 05:02

A decade ago right before I hit puberty I went to India, over there I was with a cousin of mine. She is around my age. One night I dont know why I decided to put my handunderneath her clothing and touch her breast. This was after she fell asleep. We sleep in the same room. Right after i committed the action i felt so much guilt come over me i went and tried to burn my hand but I couldn't do it. I repented and I don't know what I should do in order to repent correctly. 

Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 06/18/2018 - 14:55

Salaam I have a complicated question which is causing me and my siblings some distress. Our parents are elderly and suffer from various serious illnesses including cancer which is in remission. Lately they have taken to universally discussing family issues they have with their friends without filter. Due to their age they do get confused with the information they are giving and often present details in a very misleading light. This is leading people to speak and deal with us as if we are not taking care of our parents.

Child Sexual Abuse

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 06/16/2018 - 16:09

A male friend was sexually abused at 8 years old by a religious scholar, the person who taught him how to read the Quran. My friend was very scarred from this and became religious in his late teens. However, he was angry at God because he says he did nothing to deserve this. Children are sinless, why didnt God punish the abuser and why does he have to suffer. Therefore he stopped being religious at age 22. He is now 25 and wants to be more pious but this anger is stopping him. What advice should I give him?

Takabbur/Pride

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 06/11/2018 - 14:53

Salaam alaykum , can u pls eleborate to do takabur to a mutakabir is ibadah , pls give example on which situation. What if i let go someone who is rough etc to avoid arguments? Last what is the limit on which i have to fire back? :):) Jazakallah

Counsel - Dirty Thoughts

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 06/05/2018 - 13:18

Before a year ago I have a very develish and dirty thoughts about Allah now a days I feel it come by itself by that it is inner thoughts I m trying a lot not to think but it is not in hand .My question is that if it nafs or inner thoughts is it accountable and is it remove by taubah plz reply me

I gave my word. Now I want to end it.

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/30/2018 - 09:50

I engaged my daughter to my husband’s sister’s son his age is 26 and my daughter’s age is 18 but due to some reasons which are he is jobless he cant drive and he stays at home mostly and have some habits my daughter dont like and she wants to end it she is not happy about this relation she is annoyed by his family and the boy’s sister in law is not happy about this relation and she pass very negative comments about us and my daughter says that its a forced relation she is not interested in anyone she says you can marry with me anyone but not with him

Counsel: Anger

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 04/25/2018 - 07:16

Assalaamu alikum … I want to say that once i was one of the softest person in my whole family.. even people used to pray for their son to give them a soft heart like me.. but as time passed on , i began to loose my patience.. i am now an impatient boy.. gets angry even after every hour.. even when i talk simply, peole say that i am shouting.. that what its impact has changed me… i too want to solve and get rid of this problem of impatience and frequent anger.. even i try my best to resist.. but sometimes i fail to resist,,. and get angry again… please give suggestions…

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