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Regarding Children

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 09/18/2018 - 17:02

Asalaam salaam,  I wanted to ask regarding my children's disability money and matter regarding my husband. I have sons that are both autistic an receive disability living allowance. I got really divorced from their father when they was very young and he has not been involved in their lives. Before  i was married tp my second husband I use to use their money on them. Everything they needed nothing else.

Medical Issue

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 07/27/2018 - 15:54

As Salam u alaikum wa rahmatulahi wa barakatuhu . I have a a daughter who has a medical issue . The treatment requires us to go to another country leaving my husbands mother and father behind . They are Alhumdulillah in good health . My parents will be there with me . My husband wants to travel back and forth 3 months with us 3 months with his parents . I really need him for my child and for moral support . The treatment is supposed to last 2 -3 years . My question is do i have the right to ask him to stay with me for that time or no ?

Counsel - Parents/Sile Rehm

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 06/29/2018 - 14:29

Salaamalaikum. I have parents who have had long standing issues with my brothers wife. There had been some past problems that have to this day gone unresolved. It is now my nephews wedding, and my parents do not want to attend as a result of their problems with his mother. They also do not want me or my wife to attend my nephews wedding in fear of people telling us bad things that will drive me away from my parents.

1. What does islam say on their rights on this matter. In light of no valid reason to not go, should I disobey and go to the wedding?

Homosexual

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 06/13/2018 - 09:05

So my elder brother has been giving us problems since he was in the 6th grade. He suffers from depression and social-anxiety along with a very low self-esteem. He randomly has mood swings and has so much jealousy/envy and hate in him, he hates seeing any man that he feels is better looking than him so he’ll only hang around losers who he believes are below him. He has a terrible relationship with my other brother who he feels threatened by even his presence. And doesn’t have such a great relationship with my dad either, but will still tolerate him over my other brother any day.

Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 06/12/2018 - 21:28

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatuhu as stated above how to deal with parents who always misunderstand what their son has to say. First of all they do not agree on if my husband advices secondly if he sends him monthly needs they are never thsnkful they complain always. And most importantly they do have other sources of income but still they pressurize my husband to send a fixed amount of money which he cannot afford and we end up with no money left for us. But they say they are parents and we are not supposed to argue at any cost we shall obey them whatsoever.

Obeying Parents

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 05/22/2018 - 15:31

Hi Sheikh, originally i am from pakistan I went to Australia for study. I studied and worked there very hard for 8 years. i was very succesfull. i always tried to keep my parents happy, although we had occasional arguments but my intention was always to keep them happy. while i was on holiday in pakistan another pakistani guy living in australia commited murder and used my mobile without my permission to instigate it.

Exam - Stress

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 04/09/2018 - 11:32

Salam. I am in high school and my exams are due in two weeks. I am going through depression and tension because I can't complete all my work. I want to kill myself because I can't handle the pressure but then I think it is haraam. But still what should I do? Please sir help me out in this problem. Any dua or anything which could help me out from this stress!

Abusive Father

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 04/08/2018 - 16:16

My parents have been married for 28 years.my father always abuse my mother physically mentally verbally and emotionally. My mother had tried everything to change his behaviour but still he didn't change. Along with my mother he also abuse me n my brother..He insults us , put us down, beat us too...Me n my mother we both are financially independent..My mother wants a khula..so my question is: is it right for me to leave my abusive father and live somewhere else with my mother?

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