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My father has always been abusive, verbally and physically, How do I fix my Father? .

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 06/21/2020 - 23:12
I’m 26, the eldest of 4 and only girl. My father has always been abusive, verbally and physically. He has been abusive to everyone, his parents, his siblings, his wife, his kids, friends, neighbours, acquaintances etc. We were told someone had done taweez on him and us. We found the taweez at home too, so there is truth in this.

My 7 year old Kids misbehavior

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 04/29/2020 - 12:21
My kid is very naughty and he misbehave alot also uses abusive language he is 7 and disobedient we have used every method to make him understand love scolding and punishment nothing works of everything is going according to his will he is fine but if we want something against his will he misbehave he hits himself and he even says that he wants to die

Can I pray home and not go masjid due to Corona virus.

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 03/03/2020 - 15:37
Asalam Alaikum There are a couple cases of the coronavirus in my country(belgium) and spreading. I have heard from sheikhs if u are afraid u can pray at home instead of the mosque. I am not afraid of the virus but my mother is and she doesn't want me to pray at the masjid anymore and go outside in general (only for college if lesson is obligatory). Should i be obediënt to my mother and Stay home or should i still go to the masjid and Will there ever be a moment that IT is obligatory to not go to the masjid concerning this plague. Note: i am male and the masjid is really close.


Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 11/24/2019 - 00:05

AssalaamuAlaikum. I'm from India. My mother, a gem of a woman, passed away in May 2018. She was the only person in my family whom I could find a connect with. She used to encourage me to perform Islamic acts and become better muslim, at the same time balancing the duniya. Unfortunately, I don't have the same relationship with my father. We seldom spoke. I rarely saw him pray. He became somewhat regular just a few years ago, when he was stopped earning and that too when was greatly urged by my mother. My father's side of the family often perfoms chirag fatiha (certain biddah activites).

My Niece is 10 and has a horrible anxiety or fear of sleep

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 09/24/2019 - 21:14

My niece is 10 and her fear of sleep has put a strain on her parents she is always scared to fall asleep and be left on her own. Even if her siblings are with her in the room and they fall asleep before her she starts crying. If she wakes to find everyone else asleep she will cry. As soon as it hits bed time she will become so nervous she screams and shouts and become so hyper. What can I read to help her parents have tried all the tips and spoken to the doctors nothing is helping. Her two younger brothers have no problems and are happy to go to sleep themselves

Can you please tell me what the best way is to deal with these type of parents? Should I leave my house so that peace will remain?

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 08/13/2019 - 07:01
Salam aleikum, my question is quite simple but i’m obligated to give you some history so that you would understand my situation more. I grew up with an abusive father, he used to beat my mom in front of me. This abuse has gone, alhamudillah but my father is still an alcoholic and refuses to seek help. He has never displayed any affection towards me and would use very vulgar insults regarding my apperance. He still does, i fight back now and i know it’s wrong i have done wrong and i’m not proud of it. He gets really violent when my mom is not around.

Daughters treated badly by mothers

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 07/09/2019 - 19:58
Assalamuwalaikum. I am a Muslim woman by faith and was raised in a Muslim family. My father and mother got separated when i was 10 years old. They are not divorced but they haven't seen each other or talked with each other for the last 20 years. Our family runs through our father's money and i was always the one sent to my father when financial assistance was needed. I have an elder brother he doesn't talk any responsibility of the family, that's why my mother always used to send me to my father asking for money and all other necessities.

I hate my father

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 05/27/2019 - 00:54
I hate my father he has always abused me and sisters and mother and I don't know what and when he says something I give you answers is right because I simply hate him so much


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