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Sexual Control

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 01/16/2019 - 07:06

Assalam -0-Alaikum I used to be a porn watcher since i was only 16 years of age.But there is always good light in my heart who wants me to be good and nice.Iam trying from begining but iam unable to control it. Now whenever there is no "Ehtilaam",i get exited,i become animal.I see every girl with bad thoughts. My question is that "Is it ok to have "Hand Job(Mashq Zani)" after some period,when there is no ehtilam???" Or i should keep becoming an animal for others.....Hope you get my question.....

I don’t love the mother of kids

Submitted by Anonymous on Mon, 01/14/2019 - 13:43

as salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh I am from Afghanistan 32 and my wife is 32 too. We have four kids and live in Germany for 5 years. She is the daughter of my paternal aunt. My parents directly intervened in my marriage. Basically they forced me to marry her because they promised the aunt to give her daughter to my marriage even on that time I wasn’t young. First I didn’t believe and refused my parents command but the tension got to that point that my mom attempted to throw herself in well and or eat poison. When I saw that nightmare I was ready to scarify my life.

Is this Shirk?

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 01/13/2019 - 02:52

Dear sheikh, iam a 17 year old sister currently living in the U.K. I’ve had this burdening me for a very long time on wheneth I have committed shirk it not and can it be forgiven. So around the age of 15 my mother took me to somalia. As she left and came back, she took me to a jinn healer in Mogadishu,at first I was suspicious of what we was doing was haram but my mum would get very angry if I disagreed.

Marriage Advice

Submitted by Anonymous on Sat, 01/12/2019 - 18:46

Assalamu Alaikum I badly need advice regarding my marriage. I met my husband more than 1 year back. We used to work in same organization. Before I met my husband, I was divorced. He knew everything about me. When he met with me, he didn’t tell me that he is married for more than 5 years. I fall in love with him. And he feels same for me. That time I wasn’t a practicing Muslim. I didn’t pray neither I followed Islamic lifestyle. My husband came from a religious family. After some months his first wife texted me in face book that she is his wife.

Masturbation and Pornography (Referred)

Submitted by Anonymous on Fri, 01/04/2019 - 10:31

Help me! Hello there, Alim. I am a 17 year old teen. I have been addicted to Porn and masturbate. I started doing it during my 7th grade and now I'm on grade 11. I never knew that such actions are haram, forbidden in Islam. If I knew, I would not dare do such sin. I had found it out few days ago and I regretted all those time that I did Masturbate and watch porn. So, I decided to stop doint once for all but their is this urgence that keeps bothering my mind, it seems to be luring me into doing so and I believe it is shaytaan. I really regret all thos time i spent doing such sin.

Addicted to Pornography And Masturbating

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 01/02/2019 - 13:20

I have a question......I have this habit to pronography.......I have repented many second I am feeling ashamed of what I have done.....and the other second I dam care about anything and again indulge in this sin......I have repented......I have asked for Allah's help........I have shed tears in fornt of Him.....I even promised not to do it again but nothing helped.......I spent hardly 4 days to control my urge to masturbate.......and I nearly lost it ......I am not doing it on purpose......thing is I loose control over my wits when it comes to sexual ac

Counsel - Will Allah Accept My Prayer?

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 12/27/2018 - 08:10

Asalamualikum. I hope you are having a blessed day, I have a very important unanswered question which is stopping me from praying and becoming a better Muslim. I’ve been through a lot, and did get into drugs as a teenager. I’ve quit everything , but am in medical detox for benzos (Valium) . It is an anti anxiety sedative , which is sometimes prescribed for sleep. It doesn’t take you out of consciousness but just makes you slower. I wish I didn’t have to take it but unfortunately the withdrawals are deadly, shaking , seizures etc.

Rejecting Marriage Proposals

Submitted by Anonymous on Sun, 12/23/2018 - 18:00

I am an iraqi shia muslim girl and i do not want to get married. i have no sexual desires and i don't want any form of romantic relationship at all. I am 17, and my parents have been unhappy due to me rejecting khaatibs. How to i tell them i dont want it? They will guilt trip me and force me into it and i am sure i will not be able to fulfill my role as a wife. I haven't had a relationship or anything yet my parents seem to think this is the reason for my dislike for getting married. I just wish i could live alone and work or just stay at home with my parents would be okay.


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