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Will it be right if i leave my home and stay away from them just so they cant force me to marry someone as I am in Nikkah with someone and physical for 10 years

Q:

I have been in a physical relationship for 10 years. 3 years back we did nikkah to make it halal. And went to Allahs home and swore on Allahs and Qur'an that we accept each other as halal too. My parents are very strict if I'll tell them they will kill me or They will force me to marry someone. So I want to leave my family and go to hostel till the time husband Can talk to my parents to do nikkah with walis concern and make them agree. My question is will it be right if i leave my home and stay away from them just so they cant force me to marry someone as im in nikkah with someone and physical for 10 years. Or should I leave him and marry someone with my parent's concern. Kindly reply me as soon as possible.

A:

Waalykum salam 

 
Thank you for your Question. 
 
If at the time of your Nikkah, you were virgin, the consent of your father or Paternal Grand father was obligatory (Wajib). If the consent is missing, your nikkah is invalid! 
 
Kindly refer to the first few Qs on the following link: 
 
https://www.sistani.org/english/qa/01250/
Answer: Although providing for the marriage of needy believers is among the avenues covered by the portion of the Imam (a.s.), one is not permitted to utilize it for this or its other purposes without the permission of the marja‘ or his representative. It is not necessary to use the sahm-e Imam to serve the interests of the most possible number of deserving people; what is important is to ...
www.sistani.org
 
Kind regards 
Naajiya Jaffery