Thank you for your Question.
So not everyone is same! She must be trying hard but then is unable to cope with the entire thing.
Maybe you should consider house help so that your wife gets extra hands to look after the house.
Also, one very effective way to help would be to clean the house completely for once and then start a routine from the very next day. That way, you don’t have to clean the entire house everyday rather a room a day. Except the laundry and the dishes that may need everyday attention.
Whatever the case, this is not a fair enough reason to leave your wife. Just because she is not ale to clean up and keep up with the chores you can’t leave her.
Instead you should try and provide some house help so that you can enjoy each other’s company in much cleaner and organized environment.
Hope this helps.